Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Only tuesday?

Last saturday was such a great day! We dropped the boys off at moms house and we went out for breakfast, then goodwill and at&t and out for lunch and walmart. We needed "alone" time like crazy and it was wonderful!!

I had received an email FULL of lies from my ex's wife. It proved what I have thought all along she is bipolar and needs medication for it STAT lol! We talked with the boys about the fact that their biological father had twin boys last week, we didnt want them to hear it from someone else. Their reactions actually taught me alot. They said that doesnt affect them at all and they have a great dad who would never do that to them. And you know what? Those boys are SO right! I guess I worried about it because I dont want my boys to hurt over this so called man, but guess what? They dont! So I dont now either! Patrick said all he remembers is being yelled at alot and Parker said he remembers beer, cigarettes and chewing tabacco, Patrick didnt even know his name! So as I have stressed about my boys hurting, I dont need to cause they said it best "our dad would never do that to us" oh thank you Lord for Don!

I started watching my friends kids yesterday for a couple weeks. Brandon is almost 3 and Sandra is 4 months. Im in love with that baby and want to keep her! The boys had fun with Brandon who is such a good boy!

Our anniversary is tomorrow. Not sure if were doing anything for it yet maybe this weekend? 9 years! Wow!!

2 comments:

Karla said...

The email is full of lies because she has chosen to fabricate a history for her and Chris that suits her and her current lifestyle, and sadly, she believes it. Unfortunately, she has sprinkled her stupid dust on too many people. Sad. Love you :)

Anonymous said...

Oh Heather, you are Don are awesome parents...no need to worry about your ex and his wife. I feel sorry for the twins..cuz they will grow up to be just like them..sad! You have a large family and lots of loving friends...we all have your backs...Love you, Mom