Saturday, April 26, 2014
Thoughts!
I had a very interesting day at work yesterday. I was in the Lab, its not as hectic as being on the floor and I love it! So I'm sitting there and started a fb email with a so called "friend" (who is now deleted and blocked) she stats telling me my boys are going to resent me because I am keeping them from their dad. Well that hit a nerve with me. First I was thinking, well their dad is at home with them because they all have the day off, but she was referring to the sperm donor. After talking with Tina about this she pointed out that I have to remember those who seek their own kind of justice through someone else, are just worth praying for. They are the pathetic creatures God puts on the earth to teach us humanitarianism. And spot on she is. This person knows NOTHING of what the actual situation is just what she has heard from 1 side of the story. So I instantly forgave her and the other people involved and I let it go. I don't understand why people feel the need to get in the middle of other peoples business when it has NOTHING to do with them? When my boys are 18 they can chose if they want to see him, we support whatever decision. Right now my oldest does and my 2nd oldest wants him in a different country. That may change it may not. What will NEVER change is they have THE best DAD/FATHER/SUPPORT/HERO/FRIEND ever and that will NEVER change! Its almost 10 years since the adoption, we have moved on with our lives, why cant you? Tina also said I will always be a certain person insecurities, why? She got what she wanted, why not leave me and my family alone? So I am working on the list above, I wish everyone would! I really do pray for those in my past, but that's where they are, in my past!
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I think you better call me. Love you!
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