Am I suppose to be a Mom?

So this weekend was fun! We went to Silverwood over in Idaho, had a great time, stayed in a hotel, spent way to much money on food and just had a family weekend. Well in between all the fun, I thought to myself "these kids are driving me crazy, they fight and argue all the time, am I suppose to be their mom?" I was a basket case half the time, I wonder if we are doing it right?! Then at dinner the waitress tells us "good job mom and dad, these boys are wonderful, its a breath of fresh air" so I guess we are? I love my men more than life itself, but why, oh why do they have to act like this?? They are ungrateful, and argue and fight! I have told them so many times how lucky they are that we go out for dinner! I can count on 1 hand how many times we ate out, we just didnt do that back then. They have cell phones, I got a pager when I was a senior in highschool lol! I know life isnt like it was back then...bummer! And when it comes down to it, their hugs and kisses and cuddles are so much better than cookies or chocolate. It makes those hard times easy!